Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Tips On Surviving A Break Up - Desperately Wanting Answers!

I just want to share what I had read- 

So you want tips on surviving a break up?

I know exactly how you feel '“ In fact when I went through my break up with my ex she said that she needed to be by herself for awhile to get things worked out so we broke up.
The problem was I still loved her big time and wanted to get back with her!
But I have a secret for you '“ and it is this;
I got back together with my ex and I'm going to give you some tips on how to survive this whole mess!
And think about this '“ almost 90% of the couples that break up still have emotional ties with their ex's.
This is very good for news for you and I '“ especially when you consider that if we use this information to our advantage we have a good chance at getting back with our ex.
So when you are desperately wanting answers to tips on surviving a break up, spend some time and dwell on this'
Empathetic Longing and Wanting
All empathetic longing and wanting really is, is using empathy and the idea of using time and a bit of human nature to get back with your ex. You can do this in a few different ways.
1 '“ You can prove your empathy by writing a simple note to your ex to actually say that you are ok with the break up. It's a tough step, but it works and hang on because it's only the first step.

2 '“ Slow down on your communication with your ex, this actually works on the longing portion of the plan. You both have things to figure out and negative communication is where you guys are at right now and that is no good; so slow the chat down big time.
3 '“ When you do chat with your ex either directly or through your friends, let him and anybody else that needs to know that you are doing fine. This is harder than it sounds to do but it sends a very big message to the world that you are strong and self confident. You are now working on the wanting part.
4 '“ After the dust has settled a bit set a time to meet with your ex. Be patient and keep it on the down low for awhile; your are actually playing a little hard to get. More wanting is going on.
5 '“ During the meeting watch for signs of wanting from your ex. You have playing a little hard to get and it's human nature to want what you can't have. If you notice, your ex is probably real glad to see you.
Warning: If you rush these steps or confess your undying love too soon your ex will run the other way. It's not attractive to appear needy and wanting. Not now!


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