Something that I missed along the way

"That what you say and what you mean are the same. What you promise, you always intend to keep it. What things you say - is what exactly what you plan to do". The best definition I read so far.

This morning I learned about integrity in the life of Daniel. Daniel, which was thrown to the lion’s den because he cannot compromise God in his life showed me the true meaning of integrity.

This is a situation where I saw my self compromising and making excuses in my life. I always thought that compromising is good and everybody is doing it. But God showed me this day that life is to live with integrity. Reputation and integrity is very different. Reputation are the things that others see in your life but integrity was something deep in you. A man with integrity will always be trusted and can be successful in life because God is with him and God delights in him.

How to maintain a life of integrity

change NOW – Don’t wait for situation to get better before you change. Don’t blame others in the level of integrity you have now. It is a change inside of yourself regardless of your condition outside.

ADVANCE planning- set the things that you will not compromise with. This is helpful because when you face this kind of problem you know what things are not for you to compromise. These are the things that will make you dependable in life. You can’t become men of integrity on the spot.

DEVELOP devotional life – God should be the rule not the exception. God should be the source of our integrity. We should live according to His example. Constant communication with Him is the key for the path of integrity.

find ACCOUNTABLE friends – Friends that will ask you the hard questions. Friends that will ask you what you are doing and what you are not doing. This I will write in depth on my following blogs.

REMEMBER to focus on God and not in our circumstances – if we always look in our circumstances rather than what God is doing in our lives we will not be extraordinary. God use circumstances to develop and make us extraordinary. He is using us in His purpose in this world. Now that is worth remembering.

Godbless everyone

Joseph the Dreamer -Purpose in Life

    The Thing that really inspires me right now is like that of a Joseph the  Dreamer story. A God's message that is written in a  life of hardships and preparations. God prepare Joseph in so much way. He got hurt, sold, deserted and jailed.
    But God let all of his misfortunes be a preparation of a purpose that only Joseph can do because God is with him. Even if everyone deserted us or everyone hurt us remember that if God is with us everything has a purpose. And  I think God have that like of purpose to all who believes in Him. We should strive to walk each day of pain and sorrow with gladness in our hearts that God have wonderful plans for each of us. He alone can place us where we must be. A purpose driven life is a God centered life.

Godbless everyone

Things that inspires me right now

        I am inspired right now because God showed me my purpose. I'm always looking for my significance in life and now I found it.
     At first I try to look for material possession then success in career after that I pursue knowledge. But I felt discontented.My heart longs for something that is permanent that will eventually stop my ever wanting. But all this things are meaningless. I'm pursuing things that will eventually be corrupted, destroyed and eliminated. Wealth will perish someday regardless of how much you acquire. Work you treasure and are laboring your whole life will be replaced and shaken by others that will replace you when you retire. Persons with knowledge will not be so different with a fool when they are both dead.

God reveal to me that we must seek Him, our Creator. He who design us, mold us and continually guiding us to our purpose. We can be more effective in using things by following the manual of the one who created it. It is the same with God. We are His creation and he is our Creator. What is better to do than to do what God intended to do with us.

Now that is why I am living right now. Godbless everyone

Do you have things that needed different approach?

How to handle the Multi-Hat challenge- John Maxwell  360 Degree Leader

Remember that the hat sets the context when interacting with others

-If you change hats, keep in mind that the context changes. The goal often determines the role and the approach to take.

Don’t use one hat to accomplish a task required for another hat

-Take the time to cultivate each working relationship on its own terms, and acts accordingly, it’s often the a balancing act

When you change hats, don’t change your personality

-your attitude and behaviour should be consistent and predictable with everyone. Otherwise, you won’t be trustworthy in the eyes of anyone you work with.

Don’t neglect any hat you are responsible to wear

Remain flexible

-The key to taking on the multi-hat challenge is knowing what hat to put on at anytime and enjoying the challenge it offers. They need to be able to turn on a dime or change hats at a moment’s notice.

Unemployed Doesn't Necessarily Mean Out of Work it is called Jobhunting

Have been unemployed for three weeks now is really a struggle but I am enjoying it. There are still a lot of things to do and I am enjoying what I am learning especially the way things are for the past four years. I am still trying to reach out from my old friends while keeping the new. I am devoting now my time to plan and organize my time in job hunting and I am happy of my progress. I am still learning what are the skill of a good job hunter and reading books to supplement my search. I highly recommend the book "what color is your parachute" it is a gem and very fun reading it.
Do you lost your job recently? Don't give up there are still good jobs out there just know what you love to do and don't stop pursuing it. Godbless

Inspired? Hopefully,
Albert

TQM- I believe in it

In the competitive market environment of today, organizations need to find ways to become socially responsible and to assimilate internal and external factors in their strategic management in order to deliver the highest product or service quality to their customers. Modern organizations strive for distinguished quality of leadership, management, employees, work processes, product and service, so that their products not only meet customer needs, but they are also offered in an incessantly improving, appropriate, cost-effective, pioneering, and productive manner.
One major component of strategic management is Total Quality Management (TQM). TQM originated in Japan in the 50s by Americans W. Edward Deming and J. M. Juran, but became popular in many countries during the 80s. Being a structured approach which aims to boost customer satisfaction and loyalty through continuous and innovative improvement of quality, TQM is a buzzword analyzed as follows:

• Total: quality is address to any organizational member of activity
• Quality: characteristics of a product or a service that satisfy customer requirements
• Management: quality can be managed

TQM views quality as the main tool to boost productivity and lower scrap and warranty costs. As the output increases both quantitatively and qualitatively, customer response and organizational reputation increase at a double pace because customer needs are met effectively. Within this context, quality is the main driver for corporate success through incessant learning and advancement.
TQM focuses on meeting customer requirements, while reducing development cycle times and product/service costs. Aiming to achieve long-term customer satisfaction, TQM necessitates the equal participation of all organizational members in the effort for continuous improvement in organizational culture, attitude and operations.
Successful TQM implementation necessitates organizational change. This involves primarily education of all organizational members in order to pursue new strategic thinking and be able to identify the customer target groups and the required production outputs. Setting true customer requirements serves as the basis for pursuing a continuous improvement strategy. In addition, the ability to identify market opportunities that would improve the positioning of the organization with the use of value adding activities is important in the process of delivering the highest value for the customer at the lowest cost. In doing so, the organization focuses on prevention and not on correction, reducing the chronic waste and variations in product/service quality. The use of Standard Operations Procedures (S.O.Ps) and structured methodology to describe a process improvement facilitates the elimination of wasteful steps. Finally, the leaders of the organization must involve all organizational members in the strategic decision-making in order to boost employee motivation and adopt a new organizational culture which would inspire the will for innovative act in a climate of trust and respect.

Tips On Surviving A Break Up - Desperately Wanting Answers!

I just want to share what I had read- 

So you want tips on surviving a break up?

I know exactly how you feel '“ In fact when I went through my break up with my ex she said that she needed to be by herself for awhile to get things worked out so we broke up.
The problem was I still loved her big time and wanted to get back with her!
But I have a secret for you '“ and it is this;
I got back together with my ex and I'm going to give you some tips on how to survive this whole mess!
And think about this '“ almost 90% of the couples that break up still have emotional ties with their ex's.
This is very good for news for you and I '“ especially when you consider that if we use this information to our advantage we have a good chance at getting back with our ex.
So when you are desperately wanting answers to tips on surviving a break up, spend some time and dwell on this'
Empathetic Longing and Wanting
All empathetic longing and wanting really is, is using empathy and the idea of using time and a bit of human nature to get back with your ex. You can do this in a few different ways.
1 '“ You can prove your empathy by writing a simple note to your ex to actually say that you are ok with the break up. It's a tough step, but it works and hang on because it's only the first step.

2 '“ Slow down on your communication with your ex, this actually works on the longing portion of the plan. You both have things to figure out and negative communication is where you guys are at right now and that is no good; so slow the chat down big time.
3 '“ When you do chat with your ex either directly or through your friends, let him and anybody else that needs to know that you are doing fine. This is harder than it sounds to do but it sends a very big message to the world that you are strong and self confident. You are now working on the wanting part.
4 '“ After the dust has settled a bit set a time to meet with your ex. Be patient and keep it on the down low for awhile; your are actually playing a little hard to get. More wanting is going on.
5 '“ During the meeting watch for signs of wanting from your ex. You have playing a little hard to get and it's human nature to want what you can't have. If you notice, your ex is probably real glad to see you.
Warning: If you rush these steps or confess your undying love too soon your ex will run the other way. It's not attractive to appear needy and wanting. Not now!

What do you do when you fall in love with your friend?

       Is there any way to avoid or alter a relationship that has been doomed to friendship? Perhaps. The only way to break out of the friendship role is to stop being a friend and start acting like an available lover. You may choose to be forthright and explain to the person how you feel, though by now, it may be too late. Some have found using seduction techniques (explained in the last chapter) to be successful.
These techniques might involve dating other people in order to make the person jealous; or using hypnosis-style conversation (to force them to see you in a sexual way); or just establishing yourself as a successful "leader" in some respect (or perhaps a unique talent). These techniques may help to wake up your ex and force them to realize you are a sexual being with needs.
The worst possible thing you could at this point is to continue being a friend and continue "needing" this person so much that it's embarrassing for both of you. You must be willing to distance yourself from this friend, if he or she is not willing to give you the romantic relationship you want. (This doesn't mean cutting off all ties, it simply means keeping a reasonable distance) This may cause him or her to see you in a different light or it may not. Regardless, you must be willing to walk away and find happiness with someone else even when you fall in love with your friend.

Do what Jesus would do, be where Jesus would be

Hi guys,
           I want to share what Jesus is doing in my life today. He made me realized, that this life he has given to us is not for us alone, it was meant to be shared and given unconditionally to others.

           When Jesus Christ was still alive and preaching, He done great and mighty things here on Earth to various type of people.  Let me classify this people as the religious ones, the secular type and the broken type.

           This people are all mentioned by the bible and is still continually being reaching out by people of God.
This is a purpose for each one us. To follow the example of Jesus Christ, to be where he ones been and do what he ones done to others.

This is an interesting poll- Don't You Think

Hi Guys!!!
         I'm a big fun of this book, it is very insightful and very practical to do every day.
How much of your time do you spend with your love ones? Do you prefer quality than quantity? When was the last time you feel really loved? Have you heard your loved one saying you don't understand what I feel or needed? or having to ask someone that what they do or say is not what you want them to do or say?

P.S. There are more things that I will share later on, so please don't hesitate to comment. 

THIS IS AMAZING

This a new chapter of my life. Now I will do the best I can to make the most out of it

HELLO GUYS- CARE TO HELP ME HERE

Hi guys I am new. Anyone care to suggest anything to make it easier for me?
A tip or something is highly appreciated.


Thanks Guys